How Can I Help Chinese People between the Ages of 12 and 40 Who Live in Different Places with Their Families to Improve Remote Parent-child Communication Behavior by the Parent- child’s Common Interests, that is, Parent-child Cooking Together, to Increase Parent-child Intimacy?

Jinli Ma

doi:10.47297/wspciWSP2516-252704.20210506

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How Can I Help Chinese People between the Ages of 12 and 40 Who Live in Different Places with Their Families to Improve Remote Parent-child Communication Behavior by the Parent- child’s Common Interests, that is, Parent-child Cooking Together, to Increase Parent-child Intimacy?

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How Can I Help Chinese People between the Ages of 12 and 40 Who Live in Different Places with Their Families to Improve Remote Parent-child Communication Behavior by the Parent- child’s Common Interests, that is, Parent-child Cooking Together, to Increase Parent-child Intimacy?
How Can I Help Chinese People between the Ages of 12 and 40 Who Live in Different Places with Their Families to Improve Remote Parent-child Communication Behavior by the Parent- child’s Common Interests, that is, Parent-child Cooking Together, to Increase Parent-child Intimacy?
Zhangzhou Institute of Science & Technology
2021年5卷第6期页码：43-49
纸质出版日期： 2021 ，
DOI：10.47297/wspciWSP2516-252704.20210506
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Jinli Ma. (2021). How Can I Help Chinese People between the Ages of 12 and 40 Who Live in Different Places with Their Families to Improve Remote Parent-child Communication Behavior by the Parent- child’s Common Interests, that is, Parent-child Cooking Together, to Increase Parent-child Intimacy?. 创意与创新（英文版）, 5(6), 43-49.

JINLI MA. (2021). How Can I Help Chinese People between the Ages of 12 and 40 Who Live in Different Places with Their Families to Improve Remote Parent-child Communication Behavior by the Parent- child’s Common Interests, that is, Parent-child Cooking Together, to Increase Parent-child Intimacy?. Creativity and Innovation, 5(6), 43-49..
Jinli Ma. (2021). How Can I Help Chinese People between the Ages of 12 and 40 Who Live in Different Places with Their Families to Improve Remote Parent-child Communication Behavior by the Parent- child’s Common Interests, that is, Parent-child Cooking Together, to Increase Parent-child Intimacy?. 创意与创新（英文版）, 5(6), 43-49. DOI： 10.47297/wspciWSP2516-252704.20210506.

JINLI MA. (2021). How Can I Help Chinese People between the Ages of 12 and 40 Who Live in Different Places with Their Families to Improve Remote Parent-child Communication Behavior by the Parent- child’s Common Interests, that is, Parent-child Cooking Together, to Increase Parent-child Intimacy?. Creativity and Innovation, 5(6), 43-49.. DOI： 10.47297/wspciWSP2516-252704.20210506.

摘要

Abstract

As an inevitable reality that everyone is ignoring

family intimacy is perhaps one of the most interesting topics in today’s society. ‘Due to busy work

business trips

advanced studies and other reasons

the number of parents living in different places with their children is increasing. At the same time

as children grow up

the generation gap between them and their parents is getting bigger and bigger

which makes the children and their parents do not know how to communicate. The issue of parent-child relationship has become one of the topics of widespread concern in society.’ (Zhao Guoli

Li Jing

2019) Physical distance affects the parent- child’s psychological distance. Parents and children gradually do not understand each other and lose common topics and interests. Even

‘with the change of generations

the time for people to communicate with their families is gradually decreasing.’ (Dekor Group

2019) Intimacy between parent and child is gradually weak due to lack of communication. My parents and I are also experiencing this like above many Chinese families. However

I find there are possible factors that can change the status quo. An important factor in generating communication is topics caused by common interests. ‘In the process of making friends and even finding a lover

the use of interest theory(Interest theory means that when people have common interests which produce empathy can shorten the psychological distance between people) has become more and more common. As an interpersonal relationship

this principle also applies to parent-child relationships to a certain extent.’ (Lan.M

2018).

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Keywords

InteractionCommunicationParent-childrenCommon interestRemote

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