"Chaser Crematorium" as a typical narrative pattern of online sadomasochistic love stories

transforms female trauma into emotional consumption symbols through a closed-loop structure of "sadism - remorse - reconciliation". This paper takes such texts as the subject of analysis to explore the profound ethical paradoxes implied in them: on the one hand

it creates dramatic conflicts by exaggerating extreme plots such as domestic violence and abortion

while on the other hand

it disregards the real harm of violence with romanticized strokes and distorts the "patience" and "sacrifice" in Confucian ethics into tools of emotional manipulation; On the other hand

the "counterattack" of the female character is always attached to the forgiveness of the man's charity and is eventually forced to return to the family role

reflecting the deep contradiction between the Confucian family-centered values and the demands of modern individualism.